When prowling the internet I come across various topics of debates and conversations. A main staple still seems to be is the term “Wifey” and what exactly seperates her from the rest.

Amongst women its a sensitive subject and is usually used to one up each other when competing for a man, or a way to define position in his life. But no matter how much its dissected by us ladies the only true definitions can come from men. So I’ve compiled a few key points from them for each term and you decide which one you fall under. You might be surprised.

A WIFEY…• Never has to compete with other women because she is the only woman her man is seeing, “talking to”, and interested in. She knows this from his actions. Not just his words.

• She knows her mans family and friends. Usually has her mans parents or guardians blessings. Along with his friends. If her lifelong partner’s friends and family don’t approve of her chances are she isn’t going to be his wife.

• A man treats his wife with the utmost respect. Never cheats on her (well tries not to),  lies to her (only when he has to), or treat her like a jumpoff, a “main” or his “shorty”.

• She usually sees a side of him that no one else sees. She knows her man inside and out. His darkest thoughts, secrets, etc. There are no mysteries. No cloudy areas. Everything is in the open.

• She is the woman who a man chooses to spend the rest of his life with. She gets the marriage proposal, the ring, family unit, security and everything that man has to offer her for a lifetime.

A “SHORTY”…Is the woman who a man spends all of his time with. Usually been with for a long time. Maybe even has kids and lives with. But isn’t married or engaged. Ever thought why? Keep reading…

• Men know whether he is going to marry a woman in the early stages of the relationship. It takes men no time to see if a woman is going to be around for a while… or a lifetime.

• The “Shorty” also has met SOME of his family, and SOME of his friends. Sometimes the “shorty” may receive the mans family and friends blessings, but its usually over ruled by him…in the end.

• “Shorty” is equivalent to the “Main”. Meaning the one who he likes or cares about the most out of the women he deals with. The “shorty” is rarely the only one. Just in HER mind she is. But she don’t know the TRUTH. Men are NEVER 100% faithful to a “shorty”. Here’s why…

• The “shorty” is the woman who he may spend years with. In his heart he knows he wont marry her though. He’ll keep her around until the woman who he feels in his heart he WILL marry comes into his vision, then its curtains for the “shorty”. A man is going to be faithful or dedicated to the “shorty” for only so long before he starts roaming. He will eventually break up with the “shorty” and go be with the woman who he will make his WIFE.

So ladies realize your his TEMPORARY wife until the PERMANENT wife comes along or he wises up and you get that RING.

HOW BAD DO YOU WANT IT?

Written by: Lana Ave.

The informal use of the word “grind,” which is to work or study laboriously, has historically been adopted by the Hip-Hop culture. We’ve taken on the pride that’s associated with working hard to get what we want and own it. However, when I look around at the new generation of aspiring rappers and singers I wonder if the intensity of the grind has been lost or diminished.

I can’t tell you how many people have asked me to help them with song writing and artist development only for them to consistently drop the ball. At first I thought maybe they felt I wasn’t offering the productive help they thought they needed. But when they kept returning with a short-lived “refreshed commitment,” I realized it wasn’t me. It was them. The grind got to be too much work for them. They didn’t want to rehearse the same songs over and over again until they could perform them effortlessly. The studio hours were too late at night, too long, or cut into their weekend fun. What killed me were the ones who wanted me to write songs, locate tracks for them and decide how they should perform. I’ve had people ask me to script their ad lib. Really? The term ad lib means something improvised in speech; at one’s pleasure. Where’s the willingness to be creative? How can you show the world what you got when you’re only giving them all I’ve got?

This is the GRIND people. Get on it! It’s what it is to be Hip-Hop; to use your talent and dedication to overcome despite those who aim to oppress you. You don’t do that by slouching. Look at Russell Simmons, P. Diddy, Rev Run, LL Cool J, Will Smith, Ludacris, Queen Latifah, Jay-Z, Kanye West and Lil Wayne. These are the people I chose as examples because they’re not new to this. Where they are today took years and years of dedication, some of which we as an audience have been privy to. They’ve all worked hard and continue to grind because they decided to attain their goals, not just talk about them. Earned success requires you to put in long hours, learn your craft and master it. To make it and make a profit in any business you have to study the game and play with strategy. But you can’t play if you don’t show up. Buckle down and get focused. Hip-Hop has never been a business for the lazy. We claim what’s ours. Now go get it!

@CALanaSmith

first and foremost i wanna give a shout out to doggie diamonds and mreck the whole forbezdvd for even given ppl the option to speak they mind real talk. i go by the name Rick Spitta one half of the  nicest rap duo in LMM (loyalty Money Music) Long Island New York.You probly wouldnt know that cause our music get over looked by the gimmicks and weird shit thats supposed to be hot.

i really dont think its a lane for niggas thats genuine nice and actually care about what they saying out they mouth and actually care about the culture.niggas turned this shit into a big ass get rich quick scheme you dont have to be nice you have to be as fake as you can. djs dont support hot shit they support the same recycled bullshit all day what about the niggas that wanna here the shit niggas like us (LMM) , papoose , uncle murda , mreck , sire castro , life dutchee ,i mean its to many niggas to name but we all spit but they play this wack shit from niggas who just doing it to do it no substance in they bars no passion nothen and they the ones winning.

its also to many wack new niggas also who fucking shit up for niggas like me you guys is on twitter sending links to shit thats horrible then when i come through right after and send a link to some real crack it dont even get looked at this shit is crazy i swear how can a nigga win. i cant even hear nothen poppin on the radio cause these lame niggas flooding the airwaves and the dj gonna ride that wave even though they supposed to please the ppl thats listening to there show and not what they getting a check for.

then you got these local niggas who got a lil buzz where they from acting like they on hov level cause city or town fuck wit em and all they homies hype they shit up COME ON SON !!!! not only do i got what u got ill body ya wack ass on any beat you pick TRY ME. i never been a hater and never will be but i was trying to listen to tyler the creator i dont get that shit he be talking about ima hip hop fan so i check niggas out i just dont get it. i even seen riff raff from fucking mtv on worldstar wow this shit is getting outta hand we gonna need our own rap genre like the url in a minute for niggas who can really rap and care about what they put there. niggas wear skinny slim jeans swag looking crazy as fuck like they got dressed in the pitch dark blind folded with sunglasses on and these niggas cool.

its enough room for everybody let ppl make the music they wanna make and stop putting ppl in boxes they dont belong this hip hop.i fuck wit the x games hardbody but i dress hip hop you dont see skaters dressing hip hop they skate let them have they swag damn.im bout to end this before i be typing all night fuck wit us me and my man 730Li we get busy we gotta a new mixtape coming called 90s MINDSTATE BACK 2 THE ESSENCE.we got crazy concepts and storys and there and straights bars fuck wit us.shout out forbezdvd , Doggie Diamonds , Mreck check the links get wit us…

@Rick_Spitta
@730LI
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